Am I Normal?

The question we hear most and foremost in our practice as sex therapists is: “Am I normal if…” Being “normal” in our society carries intense pressure. Fitting in, being part of the club, not rocking the boat, going with the flow…all these phrases have taught us that there are definite rules, roles and protocol for gaining respect and self-respect in mastering society’s “normal” requirements. We question and ask others to question how did we come to accept as normal the standards of today? Where did the rules come from? Who said so and who made the rules? To understand the basis for how we live in this 21st century we have created the question forum so others may learn about us and we may learn about others and decide for ourselves…am I normal if….